Guide on how to be more likable part 5

Guide on how to be more likable

Guide on how to be more likable part 5

How to be more likable, tip number 11: minimize complaining

We all feel like we want to complain every once in a while and that is okay, however, if you complain constantly, you carry a negative aura with you and others do not want to be around you because you just bring them down or make them feel bad. So what if you just have a natural negative outlook in life and that is simply who you are? Well, in that case, I suggest you try to flip it around and try to see the positive things and frankly, if sometimes that is too hard and you cannot find anything nice to say, it is better not to say anything at all.

How to be more likable, tip number 12: make everyone feel included

If you have a group conversation, there is usually someone who speaks a lot more than someone else and if you notice that someone is being quiet or just alone, it is nice to loop them back into the conversation by asking them a question.

How to be more likable, tip number 13: embrace a positive attitude

It makes sense to embrace a positive attitude because other people will like to be around you because it makes them feel positive. Usually, positive people uplift other people and do not drain their energy and just reminding yourself of that is all it takes to be more positive. Finally, it is only fair to acknowledge that people have their own will and chances are some people will never like you and that is okay and totally normal so in those cases, it is best not to focus on things you cannot change but the things you can change and improve.

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